One Date is fully customizable to the girl and the situation. I’ve had students use it to investment trap & seduce girls of every type imaginable. Just as an example: I’ve had students use it to date shy religious girls from conservative upbringings, others who went for fashion models and Instagram influencers, and other students using it to date really wild party girls who love to have fun. Me personally, my favorites are gorgeous, shapely, young, worldly career chicks (because they’re just about the only ones who keep up with me). Regardless though: it works with every type. This is a fully adaptable System that works to get any kind of girl invested, attracted, and devoted.

That depends a lot on the guy, his level of dedication, and where he’s starting out. Guys who only need a small tweak or push can start getting results right away. I’ve had students report picking up One Date and having girls deeply invested in them the next day. If a guy needs more help or he’s starting out further behind, he should expect a few weeks to maaaybe a month to really get comfortable using the System. That said, there’s stuff in One Date that works immediately to start generating investment from women and make talking to girls a lot easier, and those results are instant.

This is totally the right approach for that! Just about everything else out there tries to change guys into something else. Mainstream advice tells them to be passive nice guys, waiting and waiting forever. Red pill stuff tries to turn them into these alpha-jock chest-beater gorilla types. The self-improvement gurus don’t want them thinking about women at all; instead they’re supposed to be in the gym all the time or focusing on the hustle. This is just about the only method that DOESN’T demand guys turn into someone else. It’s just a set of blueprints and simple steps any guy can use to get the girls he wants investing in him, attracted to him, and devoted.

One Date doesn’t JUST cover investment traps. It covers everything, from being complete strangers with a girl to making her a girlfriend. On top of that, I’ve even included two bonuses that show how to approach women in any situation AND give my 10 best conversation starters… So talking to any woman anywhere becomes almost automatic. You can get girls investing in you within seconds of saying hello (that’s what the 4 Words are for!). This solution covers the whole process.

Don’t worry about it, every guy’s at least a little bit scared. The key is going to be translating the adrenaline when spotting a pretty girl into action. I give all the tools to do that. Yet more than that, I show how to approach and what to expect so as not to freeze up or get scared anymore. Once you’ve had a few girls start investing in you like crazy, it’s hard to ever feel fear with women again.

Younger girls are every bit as susceptible to investment traps as older ones are. In fact, as an older man, you’re at an advantage: younger women are conditioned by society and their upbringings to view older men as authority figures. What do you do when an authority figure asks you to do something? You comply. Compliance is at the heart of our investment trap strategy: the more she complies, the deeper into your investment trap she falls. As an older guy, younger girls are arguably the easiest women out there for you to get investing and ‘sucked in’.

So first off, I have had multiple students in their 70s learning this stuff. I even had a guy in his 80s. So it’s definitely never too late. I mean so long as a guy can still get around and hasn’t lost all his marbles he’s got the tools to get a girl he likes to invest in him. What I do see is a lot of guys who’ve spent a long time alone and they THINK it’s impossible to catch back up. Guys like this don’t give themselves enough credit… And they give other guys too much credit! It takes surprisingly little time to start getting that initial investment from women, even for men starting from zero. It’s important to follow the process, but investment traps are not rocket science. Humans have been giving and trading investment in one another for millions of years, just following these same processes, and all we’re doing here is getting out there, approaching it consciously, and getting back in touch with this very natural part of our beings that maybe we’ve suppressed due to anxiety or trauma or just never having made it a priority before.

That’s completely fine. I know some guys like drawing out the get-to-know-her process over a couple of dates, and that is totally doable. In fact inside One Date I share my patented, extremely reliable approach to this called “Date Compression.” See the big problem with multiple dates is the longer things stretch out before two people consummate their attraction, the more time there is for her sense of investment to fade and something to go wrong. She loses interest… She meets someone else… Something happens in her life that pulls her away. Date Compression gets around this by slashing the amount of time it takes to get together with a girl, without reducing the number of dates to take her out on. You keep her investment up, keep the momentum on, and she remains attracted and devoted. I explain it all inside the course. Yet this way, the guys who like to take girls out on multiple dates still can, without being derailed by all those things that cause women to drift off or lose interest.

So long as you are not lying to women or leading them on to expect a relationship you’re unwilling to provide, then yes, investment traps are 100% ethical. All you’re doing with an investment trap is creating a ‘vacuum’ for a woman to invest her time, energy, and emotion into. Women are constantly on the hunt for an ‘investment vacuum’ like this that can make them feel absorbed and alive. Most men have no idea how to do it. Women’s romance novels are chock full of it. When you provide this ‘service’ to women, you get to be the guy who brings their romance novels to life. That’s about as ethical as it gets.

Well, I developed investment traps and the SAC model in the United States. While I put it all together I lived in D.C. and San Diego. Yet I also used in Milwaukee, Atlanta, San Francisco, New York, and a dozen other US metropolises. And I love traveling so since then I’ve personally put it to use dating girls in dozens more cities like London, Berlin, Bucharest, and Osaka across 30 different countries. It’s worked equally well everywhere I’ve tried it. And even though I designed this while living in cities, my co-host inside One Date — his name’s Hector — used my System in his tiny college town of just 17,000 people to incredible results… And one of our BEST case studies comes from a guy who had scads of success in a town of just 40,000. I have satisfied One Date buyers scattered throughout 92 countries. I’ve even taught aspects of this System to a student in Saudi Arabia, one of the most restricted countries on Earth when it comes to dating, and he has had massive success using it there. This System works everywhere.

My general advice to any student is to focus on meeting NEW women. See the problem with knowing a girl for a long time is she forms opinions that can be pretty hard to change. A lot of the time she was even attracted at the beginning, however when no moves are made, that attraction fades. Once the attraction is completely gone it’s hard to get an investment trap going. It’s usually a lot easier to start with a new girl than to jumpstart an old girl who’s lost interest. That said, a lot of times once a guy starts succeeding with new women, that old girl suddenly gets re-interested all over again — at which point investment traps become viable again. And we have definitely had plenty of reports from guys who got with that special girl… Heck, it happened to the moderator of our alumni forum, a really cool young guy from France! So while I do recommend putting the focus on NEW women, it’s definitely doable, and it is not at all an uncommon phenomenon among men using One Date.

There’s a specific reason that guys end up in the friend zone, and it’s this: they put themselves there. It’s not intentional, and it’s nobody’s fault. However, when a guy acts like a really good friend, and nothing more, he does the investing himself, and puts himself in the girl’s investment trap! A guy who’s using the One Date System can still be a really good guy (and in fact, I require my customers to be good guys! Being a good person is a mandatory rule any customer of mine must follow). Nevertheless, being good is not enough! There’s another dimension besides goodness required to get the girl, and that’s the one covered by this System: bonding with her, exciting her, and most importantly getting her to invest — everything covered by the SAC Attraction Model. Put One Date’s SAC Model into use, and it becomes impossible to end up in ANY girl’s friend zone. I don’t care how hot she is… It’s simply impossible to be taken as “just a friend” when she’s caught in your investment trap!

“He who hesitates is lost,” right? A lot of guys have this problem! I’ve been guilty of it myself plenty of times. Nothing stings more than watching some girl it was almost sealed with walk out the door, disappointment all over her face. This goes back to a big problem men have in modern dating: everything’s moving faster, yet most guys move too slow! One of the side effects of the One Date System is that the whole dating process speeds up and making moves goes almost onto autopilot. It’s just “do this to get here; do that to get there,” etc. A lot of guys report following this System that the first successes they have it’s almost like they’re watching themselves from outside. Kinda surreal. Even still, I’ve included all my simple steps for getting past every nerve-wracking “make a move” moment, including the 10-Minute Kiss Rule, which is a lifesaver for the #1 moment that stumps most guys: going for that first kiss. With this System in-hand, all that freezing up and hesitation goes away.

I understand a lot of the stuff out there is either too flimsy or too confusing. One Date’s in the Goldilocks zone: I designed it to be just right. This System aims to make everything it teaches intuitive, and based on what our customers tell me it succeeds with flying colors. Even the unconventional stuff makes simple, natural sense... And I’ve lain it all out in an accessible way. There are no complicated routines or techniques to memorize... Just simple dating focuses to adopt that turn girls into girlfriends. I want the focus on the girl and the experience, not on techniques... That led me to build One Date in a way that gives all the information to use, then gets out of the way so guys can use it.

This System is incredibly flexible. So yes, it can be used at events or meeting lots of people… Yet it also works for guys who just want to talk to a few people now and then and not maintain some busy social life. There’s no need to be outgoing to suck girls into investment traps. The only requirement is it does take some talking to girls, at least a little bit, so you will have to leave the house occasionally — kinda goes without saying though, right?

I mean, go out and start talking to every girl in eyeshot, and yeah, that’ll happen. That’s not what I recommend for anyone though. My general recommendation for most guys is to focus on approaching girls they experience a genuine attraction to. Do that, and approach the way I show inside the System, and it’s just going to look like two people who probably already know each other running into each other and having a conversation. And to the girl herself? Use what I show in the System, and it doesn’t feel at all for her like she’s just met some ‘random guy’… Instead it feels like fate: like she’s just met the guy she was destined to meet that day. And that’s a pretty nice feeling to give a girl, isn’t it?

It’s frustrating, isn’t it? Doing all this work to become a really impressive guy… And then girls just keep their distance. They’re SUPPOSED to be attracted, right? The reason for it is something known as “auto-rejection.” See women will reject a guy they find too impressive, because he seems unreachable. Even if he’s a nice guy! When a guy’s worked on himself for a long time, he may be surprised how many girls this happens with. Even some really good looking girls will auto-reject guys they feel they can’t relate to. The solution to auto-rejection is the ‘S’ in my SAC model: similarity. I show exactly how to use this inside the System to get around that “too impressive” problem… That way it’s easy to start bonding with women and bypass those auto-rejection triggers that trip up most too-impressive guys.

Yeah, that was me before I started working on this stuff too. I spent ages 18 to 22 alone, didn’t ask out a single girl, and was a near-total recluse during that time... Because I just ran out of hope and quit. It wasn’t until I hit rock bottom that I realized this was a skill set I had to teach myself. So that’s what I did... I went out and just talked to girls until I’d figured out the stuff that’s in this System, and my life changed. It isn’t hard to start using investment traps (it just takes 4 words!). And the moment you’ve got a cute girl sucked into an investment trap, you’ll never look at life or dating the same way again.

Sure. In fact, a lot of One Date Lesson 4 is totally devoted to this. That’s where we talk about the concept of similarity. And introverted guys are going to like this a lot, because there’s no need to relate to the superficial stuff to build commonalities with women this way. I actually specifically designed this because I never watched TV and I’m too much of a history nerd to be able to bond with women over pop culture. So I needed a way to connect with girls at a deeper level and not just be talking about celebrity gossip. Similarity is THE KEY to that way… And for the guys who stay tuned for Module 2 of The Dating Artisan, which is the first new module to unlock 14 days after One Date, I have a full suite of my most powerful conversation tech coming, including one I learned from a girlfriend of mine who was the BEST person I have ever seen at getting people to reveal every little secret they have.

There’s no time requirement for using One Date. No mandatory number of hours to use it per week. If someone wants to devote a lot of time to dating, it’s certainly possible to do that and get lots of results. However, my busiest clients stick to just using this System when they have the time. They fit in dates where they can, and use the System in ways that work with their schedules. In fact, because of this System’s focus on getting girls to do so much of the work themselves, it’s actually a huge time and energy saver, making it better suited to busy men than any other approach I’ve seen.

So, I designed this System with two people in mind. One is the guy who wants to know EVERYTHING... He wants to know every detail, tighten every bolt, and explore every nook... And he wants it in a simple, focused, accessible way. The other guy is the guy who just wants to know what to do so he can get out there and go do it. “Just gimme the 4 words and let me at ‘em!” My mission was to make One Date THE most thorough, jam-packed blueprint ever created in dating... And trust me, nobody trumps me in thoroughness... Yet I also designed it in a modular way to let the guys who want to skim go right to the parts they need. And inside are both transcripts and a PDF handbook with everything from the videos... It’s possible to skim right through... Or even Cmd or Ctrl+F and search for specific items. The secrets to getting girlfriends in a single date are straightforward... Yet I also cover every nuance imaginable for the guys who want to be extra prepared.

This is a great question, and it depends on the guy. Do you get girls throwing themselves at you and investing in you already? Do you reliably transform those girls into lovers? Not much help needed then, most likely. On the other hand, there’s tons of detail in here... On breaking rules to build arousal... The right ways and wrong ways to build similarity with women... Tools for streamlining and optimizing dating... And ways to all but read women’s minds about exactly what they want... Stuff that even the already-skilled guy will still likely find profitable. However, for the guy who’s unsatisfied with his ability to get girls investing in him… Or his ability to turn the girls who do invest into lovers and girlfriends… Or who’s unhappy with the caliber of girl he’s getting... Or even the frequency he gets girls with… Then yes times a thousand he’s going to love One Date.

The sheer amount of scientific research in this alone should hint that this is no con job. I run the world’s most popular men’s dating advice brand, and this System reflects on me and it in a big way... So I have to over-deliver. That said, I know there’s a lot of junk out there, which is why I have such a crazy generous refund policy on One Date. Not happy? Then write me, send me an email, call me... Anything other than a message in a bottle or a carrier pigeon will work... Ask for a refund, and have it processed the same day. I put my heart and soul into this; anyone who isn’t blown away, I don’t want that guy’s money. The vast majority of guys who dig into this System are thrilled with it and never ask for refunds, yet it’s there if someone needs it.

One Date builds on prior discoveries in dating and it draws from my prior material of course too... However it is its own, new, original thing. This is the only place I share the full SAC Attraction Model… The guys who’ve been using it have all found it brilliant... As we saw in some of those testimonials earlier… It describes to a “T” what the most successful daters already do... And it fills in the blanks in a big way for any guy who isn’t getting the results he wants yet. Further, no one’s talking about investment traps or any of these scientific studies anywhere outside of Girls Chase and academia. Much of this is brand new to both mainstream dating, self-improvement gurus, anybody who talks about women and dating at all. There is nothing on the market like One Date. It has no parallel.

I’m not teaching pickup lines that every girl will have heard already within 3 years. I’m teaching the process that makes women invest in a man… making themselves become wildly attracted... Turn deeply devoted… And feel so much trust they commit, body and soul, to a man. This is what men used to get women 40,000 years ago, and men will still use it 40,000 years from now. I designed every single aspect of One Date to be timeless... I built this as something I could hand my sons and they’d still be able to use it any way they wanted... To get whatever results they wanted with girls in a culture that will have changed by then... Yet whose women will still be running the same old mate selection criteria women always have, and investment traps will still work as pristinely as they always have. The lessons of this course do not age, and will not age... And will not become obsolete, so long as the human race continues to exist.

A handful of bucks to do what most guys fail to do, blowing through $120,000 on across their lifetimes... Money spent on pricey dates, impressive cars... On gifts to make her like them more or apologize for making her mad... Getting stuck deep in the investment traps of girl after girl themselves, rather than pull her into their own… Not to mention the huge, colossal, incredible amounts of lost productive time guys burn through thanks to being clueless… Because they’re stressing out over that cute girl they want to ask out but aren’t sure if she’ll say yes... Or that new girl they started seeing but they’re more invested than she is, so she isn’t loyal, and they’re afraid they can’t keep her? Yeah, I’d say a measly $67 bucks is worth it. But hey, that’s just me!